Women & Men

14 Aug 2010 Ok, i dont know if anyone else has noticed (ive a feeling my brain is wired in to it at the moment) but there has been an upsurge of relationship advice in books and newspapers lately and the general tone is the same. "Women, men are wired to look at other women (im ok with this aspect...i look at men AND women and rate them!) but supposedly 50% of men WILL cheat. This i AM NOT ok with and the advice the latest relationship articles are giving women...."work through it, it can actually make a relationship stronger." Im sorry but HOW THE FUCK IS THAT?! Id loose ALL trust and i am not wired to Forgive & Forget. Ill file it away to the back of my mind so it may grow cobwebs and rot eventually (not guaranteed though!) but sorry....forgiveness?! It is a spiritual, yogic, buddhist, whatever, trait i would love to posses but i know myself well enough to know it will take me another life time to aquire that skill. This life time....it aint gona happen! My reaction to "yes, i slept with her" etc would be to chop his testicles off and shove them down the throat of the woman he cheated with and walk away while he bled to death and she choked with a satisfied spring in my step. I know this is mean and god knows im no angel but .......thats just it, im no angel! Break my trust and ill make you pay! (this goes for any type of relationship!) Women are emotional and god only knows its a side of me that anoys me sometimes! But why do all the articles and books sway more towards getting the women to accept that men will never understand them and that the woman should try and understand the man and flex and bend to their way of being? I am all for trying to understand a guy (which by the way....men are JUST AS complicated as women! They confuse the hell out me!) but i am not all for it just being the woman who bends and flexes. Its time articles and books were directed at men in a logical, car manual sort of way to show them how to get on with women and then they wouldnt have to deal with the sides of women they dont like! Dont get me wrong, I love men, i LOVE them. I couldnt function without them spesh when you just want a logical solution or someone one to go drink with or someone you can leave your male side out around I.E. fart like a trooper or burp till the foundations rocked! I couldnt function without my father and brother and hell, sometimes other females are just too emotional for me! It would be cool to know tho that males could handle the over flow of emotions that i get swamped under too! anyway....Women are emotional, men are logical. Women cant be logical, men cant understand emotion. so....Woman finds out partner has been cheating. Womans trust and pride is destroyed and heart is smashed to pieces. Woman has, as its called, an OVER emotional reaction since a woman is literally tied to her emotions (its scientifically proven so if you men have a problem with that fuck another guy), guy cant handle the over flow of painful emotion, they argue, woman leaves, mans hurt cause he "didnt mean" to have an affair or cheat. Theres a logical, male way of making sure a woman doesnt have an emotional reaction (making sure the female doesnt find out youve cheated aint the solution cause its proven nearly ALL affairs are discovered) is to NOT CHEAT!! Women have to accept the fact men will never NEVER connect with them emotionally as they simply cant and its not their fault. men have to approach women logicallyso learning as much as possible about them might help that! Oh! by the way....men, if your woman cheats on you you have just as much right to chop her testicles off! I know women arent all angels either! Its just statistically less likely for them to cheat! For the guys who never would/have cheated....YOU ROCK THE TEACH!!